Warning...explicit language to follow!

For the love of GOD!!!
I really thought that once I left the halls of high school the child-like bullshit would end and we could all hold our heads high and realize that we have entered the lovely land of adulthood. Guess I was wrong...
Read the following exchange:

Wednesday, June 27, 2007

Talking to your husband!!!!
Excuse me for a moment while I address an issue...
I noticed this evening that on the "coloring box" on my profile, someone has posed the following question:
"I just want to know if you are still talking to my husband"
First of all, I speak to many women's husbands on a daily basis...co-workers, customers, committee members, the list goes on and on. Without further identifying yourself--and your husband--I am hardly in a position to answer such a question.
Secondly, let me remind you all that we are adults and the child-like games that we once played are really not neccessary. Grow the fuck up.
Seriously.
So, if anyone has anything to ask me, feel free to do so. And for the record, yes, I probably am still talking to your husband.
Lisa

Well, first of all, you know who I am and you exactly why I asked you the question. And if you are still talking to my husband, YOU have a serious problem on your hands. Maybe you should stay out of other people's lives and work on your own marriage instead of trying to "get the one that got away". You are the one that needs to be an adult and instead of sneaking around talking to other peoples husbands, talk to your own, instead of "Falling back in Love with mine!!!!!" I have a family that I am desparately trying to keep together and I don't need the EX TRAMP interfering with that. Because if you do, it won't be a good thing!!!!

Posted by Steve & Misty on Monday, July 02, 2007 at 7:32 AM

First of all, if you had not done the things you did, you would not be in the position to "desperately try to keep your family together". I do not think anyone interferring has anything to do with that. You made your bed and it is time you lie in it. If you are so concerned about whether or not I am talking to him, why don't you just ask Steve? Oh, wait---you guys probably have some trust issues these days, huh?

Posted by Lisa on Wednesday, July 04, 2007 at 10:08 AM

Well, little do you know.... You were talking to him before we even split up, so that makes you just as shitty as me. But, the difference between me and you is that I am making an effort. And as for Steve, why he would want to talk to someone who claimed she was pregnant with his child and then demanded that he pay for an abortion....oooops, bet ya thought I forgot about that shady shit. And as far as my relationship with my husband, that is completely none of your business, you cheated on him the whole time ya'll were together.....with BOB nonetheless.Yes, and don't think that I won't call your husband and let him in on few things myself. You need to stay away from MY husband, or there will be serious consequences to pay.Be an adult and be a WOMAN and respect my family and I will respect yours. Just answer the question.....

Posted by Steve & Misty on Thursday, July 05, 2007 at 7:07 AM

This is starting to get ridiculous. If you want to talk about this, email me directly at xxxxxx Otherwise, I am done here.
Posted by Lisa on Thursday, July 05, 2007 at 12:04 PM

Now, let me back up just a bit and fill you in. The instigator of this exchange is the wife of my ex-boyfriend/fiance'. We have some history between us due to the fact that she started dating him about 7 seconds after we broke up and did not understand why he and I remained friends. Needless to say, our friendship lasted all of a hot minute before she had enough and nipped it in the bud. No hard feelings...all of our lives moved on.
Fastforward 7-8 years...
By complete and total chance Steve and I run into each other. We chat a bit and make all of the appropriate pleasantries that two people who used to be a part of one anothers lives do. (Great to see you! We should get together soon! Keep in touch!) We all know that drill.
Well, low and behold, the next morning I come to work and see that he has held true to his word and sent me an email. Throughout our conversations he learned that I was now happily married with two kids, and I learned that he was on the verge of seperation from his wife. We emailed back and forth for a few days and decided to get together for lunch one day. Lunch became a regular date for us (which my husband always knew about and even joined on occassion!)
After about 5 months of this he decided he was going to patch things up with honey-pie and I felt that it would be best if we ceased all communication. I know how she feels about me and felt that if he was going to walk back into his marriage, he needed to do so in an open and honest way. As long as he was friends with me, he would hold that information back. This led to a little "tiff" between us, but either way I have not spoken to him, seen him, or had any formal of communication with him for nearly 10 months now.
Then, out of the blue the above communication occurs!
WTF?

Long Time, No Type...

Life has been busy, so I have not updated here in a while.
Where do I begin??
Work is still annoying, life is pretty much the same.
I am looking forward to our family vacation that is rapidly approaching. Holy Crap! We leave in 3 days and I can not wait. Some nice R&R with the hubby and kids is just what the doctor ordered.
Speaking of the hubby, let me just say that with each passing year things just get better and better!
I am in awe at the wonderful life I have!